Still Doing It: The Intimate Lives of Women Over Sixty

Feisty, fearless, and full of flavor, this book does more than document a movement — it invites you into a conversation that many weren’t sure would survive aging. Still Doing It celebrates sex, love, and life for women as they enter their 60s, 70s, 80s, and beyond, turning stereotypes on their heads and proving that desire can deepen, diversify, and thrill with every passing decade. Based on the acclaimed documentary and brought to life in a in-depth 208-page paperback, this is a candid, joyous look at how intimacy evolves when time isn’t a constraint but a catalyst.

Meet Betty, who found a spark online at sixty-nine with a younger partner; Joani, seventy, navigating shared love with a partner who also explores connections with others; and Frances, who discovers a profound intellectual and romantic bond at eighty. These stories aren’t about rebellion for its own sake — they’re about vitality, consent, curiosity, and the courage to pursue desire with maturity. The authors Deirdre Fishel and Diana Holtzberg lift the veil on a generation redefining intimacy, proving that the best chapters may come last.

Why this book stands out

• Age-positive intimacy: A refreshingly honest portrayal of sex and romance as a lifelong journey, not a chapter that ends at a certain age.
• Real voices, real lives: Dynamic, opinionated women who are unapologetic about their desires, fantasies, and intimate routines.
• Challenging stereotypes: Moves beyond cultural myths about aging, showing how passion, curiosity, and playfulness persist and flourish.
• Accessible yet profound: Thoughtful storytelling that blends emotional insight with practical, tangible moments of intimacy.

Who this book is for

Anyone curious about how desire evolves with time, couples seeking fresh inspiration for long-term relationships, and readers who crave authentic, nonjudgmental narratives about sex after sixty. It’s also a powerful resource for readers looking for validation that pleasure and companionship can be a core part of aging with grace and gusto.

What you’ll gain from Still Doing It

• Validation and reassurance: A reminder that longing, curiosity, and adventurous sex aren’t limited by age.
• Conversation starters: Honest, relatable stories that spark dialogue with partners, friends, or book clubs.
• Empowerment through example: Concrete anecdotes about negotiating boundaries, exploring fantasies, and embracing vulnerability.
• Inspiration for your own journey: Practical takeaways for cultivating intimacy, romance, and joy in later life.

How this book complements your Fantasies Boutique experience

Fantasies Boutique isn’t just about gear — it’s about embracing sensual exploration at every stage of life. Still Doing It pairs perfectly with our philosophy: celebrate confidence, comfort, and consent, then translate that energy into everyday romance. After you’ve read the stories, you’ll be inspired to explore shared adventures with trusted partners, and perhaps to enhance your experiences with our curated line of intimate wear and accessories designed for every body and every mood.

Reading tips for maximum impact

• Read with a partner to spark candid conversations about desires you both want to explore — it’s a gentle way to broach new territory and set boundaries.
• Use the book as a springboard for themed date nights: slow, sensory experiences that honor touch, scent, and connection.
• Pair the narratives with practical bookshelf conversation starters or a guided discussion in a reading group focused on aging and intimacy.

Why choose Still Doing It now

As people live longer, healthier lives, the question isn’t whether to slow down — it’s how to savor the journey. This book gives you permission to keep chasing joy, to redefine intimacy on your own terms, and to celebrate the wealth of experiences aging brings. If you’re ready to challenge assumptions and unlock new layers of connection, Still Doing It is your invitation to discover that the good stuff often begins when you decide to keep going.