Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex

From acclaimed sex educator Allison Moon (author of Girl Sex 101), Getting It is an empowering, accessible guide to casual sex and hooking up. This 288-page paperback invites readers of all sexual identities and experience levels to explore what hookup culture means for them—and how to pursue safe, enjoyable encounters with clear communication, consent, and respect for everyone involved, including themselves. It also offers practical guidance for navigating the highs and lows of casual encounters and recovering gracefully when plans go sideways.

What you’ll learn

• First moves and sex etiquette that prioritize consent and consideration
• Strategies for clear, honest communication to avoid crossed signals
• Nonmonogamy navigation and relationship-style flexibility
• Sexual health basics and safety practices for casual encounters
• Ways to recover gracefully when things don’t go as planned
• An intersectional, respectful framework that centers dignity for all involved

Who this is for

People of all sexual identities and experience levels who want a thoughtful, practical roadmap for hot, healthy hookups and a shame-free approach to sex.

Why this book stands out

• Written with clarity and warmth by a respected educator who’s passionate about consent and respect
• Addresses the real-world dynamics of hookup culture, from signals to safety
• Offers a grounded, intersectional perspective that respects diverse experiences

About the author

Allison Moon is a sex educator and the author of Girl Sex 101. This book showcases her award-winning approach to sexual health, consent, and inclusive sexuality.

Format & details

• Format: Paperback
• Pages: 288
• Author: Allison Moon

Whether you’re curious about casual sex or seeking a confident, respectful playbook for hookups, Getting It provides a practical, engaging roadmap to doing it well—and feeling great about it every step of the way.