Tell Me What You Want

From Justin J. Lehmiller, a leading expert on human sexuality and author of the Sex and Psychology blog, Tell Me What You Want offers an evidence-based, engaging exploration of sexual fantasies and how to translate them into greater satisfaction and pleasure in real life. This paperback—288 pages of rigorous research distilled into practical guidance—helps you understand your desires and how to pursue them within your relationships.

What do Americans really want when it comes to sex? This book answers that question and shows you how to uncover your own desires, attain them within your relationship, and honor the diverse desires of your partner. By embracing the incredible diversity of human sexual desire, you can reduce anxiety and shame around fantasies and cultivate deeper intimacy, communication, and fulfillment in your sex life.

What you’ll gain

• Science-based insights into sexual fantasies and desire
• Ways to understand your own desires and preferences with clarity
• Practical strategies to communicate and negotiate with your partner
• Techniques to increase satisfaction, arousal, and pleasure
• Less anxiety and stigma about fantasies, with a focus on consent and safety
• Guidance on aligning you and your partner’s needs for a thriving sex life

Perfect for customers of Fantasies Boutique, this book pairs beautifully with our curated range of adult toys and lingerie, helping you explore fantasies with confidence, consent, and privacy in a safe, supportive environment.

Format: Paperback • Pages: 288 • Author: Justin J. Lehmiller